Kelley Gondring Kelley Gondring

Nesting: Benefits and Challenges

Nesting is a option that a growing number of parents choose once the need for separation has become clear to one or both of them. This option allows the children stay in the family home while the adults rotate in and out according to an agreed-upon schedule. Instead of the kids packing bags and bouncing between spaces, the parents do the moving. For many families, nesting provides a bridge between what was and what will be.

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Kelley Gondring Kelley Gondring

When Families Go To Court Too Soon

Not every family law problem needs a hammer. Litigation has an important place in family law—but it shouldn't always be the first tool we reach for. Before heading to court, families deserve to understand the alternatives and choose a process that fits their circumstances, their goals, and the family they will continue to be after divorce.

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Kelley Gondring Kelley Gondring

What to Say (and Not Say) to Your Children about Divorce

The practical guidance here offers some specific examples of what children may need to hear—and what is better left unsaid. At the end of the conversation, your children should know that while their parents' marriage may be changing, hey are still loved; they are not responsible for the change; and, they do not have to choose between the people they love.

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Lindsay Byers-Wagner Lindsay Byers-Wagner

Dating During Separation

Whether deciding to separate has made you swear off relationships for good (or at least for the foreseeable future), or opened up a whole new world of romantic possibilities, you’re not alone.

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Kelley Gondring Kelley Gondring

Children’s Bill of Rights

This Children’s Bill of Rights can help parents experiencing separation and divorce keep their children’s best interests in the forefront of decision-making.

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Kelley Gondring Kelley Gondring

Gray Divorce - Part II

Divorces between couples who are over the age of 50 and have had long marriages – often called “Gray Divorces” – present unique emotional, logistical and legal challenges.

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Lindsay Byers-Wagner Lindsay Byers-Wagner

What is a Guardian ad litem?

To ensure your child’s best interests are heard and considered, the court can appoint a Guardian ad litem.

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